Saturday, January 16, 2010

Is IS 2010 isn't it???

As if the ravings of Stephen Baldwin on Celebrity Big Brother ("If my daughter was threatened by a gun man and had to say 'Jesus Isn't Real' to survive, I'd tell her not to say it and I would see her in heaven") weren't jaw dropping enough, I recently came face to face with an evolution denier!!

This never happened to me before and I was genuinely taken aback!! That was supposed to only happen to Americans when the stumbled into Creationist territory. I live in Ireland, where although there is a strong(ish) Catholic contingent, evolution is happily taught in schools and there is never even the suggestion that there might be a hint of a reason why anyone in their right mind might even begin to doubt it.

I kinda had a feeling things were going in an odd direction when he said “But how can there be Global Warming when we have had the coldest winter in 10 years?” I had made a joke earlier in the week to someone else that I was waiting to hear that, but I never ACTUALLY thought I would.

But as we were discussing global warming, I used the word ‘Theory’. As I was talking he said “I don’t believe in theories, only facts. And I can prove the theory of evolution is wrong too”. I thought I misheard (as you do) and so I asked him did I hear correctly. He said yes and then proceeded to explain that as man evolved faster than chimps, evolution is wrong because this cannot happen in evolution. Also this situation where one animal evolved faster from a common point has only ever happened to man.

I told him that environmental factors dictate way each animal evolves and the differences between one animal and another. I also pointed out that birds and reptiles evolved from the same ancestor and that the alligator hasn’t evolved in millions of years but the birds have evolved much faster but it fell on deaf ears.

He said but there are lots of holes in the theory of evolution. I said yes. And that is OK. That just means that everything isn’t fully understood yet. But I said the important word is yet. Scientists have been working on evolution for 150 years and I am confident they will find those answers at some point. But for now I am comfortable with the gaps.

At this point he made some disparaging comment about Scientists being in it together and suggested there was a massive cover-up and that they are controlled by the government.

In some way this last comment made the rest of the conversation easier to take. Added to the previous comments he was making about Global Warming (and an earlier one again about another supposed Government cover-up) I realized that there was a bigger picture going on here. That his focus is more anti-government-it’s-all-a-big-conspiracy-they-are-all-out-to-get-us rather than an evolution is wrong thing. At least I hope so.

But it makes me sad (and a little angry) to hear people make statements about evolution that they have heard somewhere, from what they believe to be a trusted source, that are clearly wrong. But they are repeated so often that they just accept them (because they wish it to be true?). At no point do they verify or validate them. It’s the straw man. It’s easier to counter false arguments and evidence for evolution than the actual facts so they stick with them. This ‘proof’ was one of those.

Like I said I was flabbergasted to hear this being said. I admit I wasn’t prepared for it in the slightest. I’m not sure if this will EVER come up again. If it does I can only hope that I can set him straight or at the very least give him something to think about. But it was a sad day to think that in 2010 we are still having conversations like this.


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Wednesday, January 6, 2010

New Year - New Start

I made it to 2010 and so we have a new year.

SO....for this year I resolve to blog more. About stuff. That's what the world needs. More blogs about stuff.

I have made my new years resolutions (using Joe's Goals) and one of them is to focus on my writing for the year.

As suggested by Richard Wiseman, I need to tell people what my goal is to GUILT myself into keeping them.

So buckle up peeps....My moods swings are going to find an outlet and rants will be ranted upon!!

You have been TOLD!!

Churs.

Friday, May 29, 2009

Monday, May 25, 2009

Religion is like a Football Team

I support Chelsea and my Mecca is Stamford Bridge. I made my pilgrimage when I lived in London and it was the site of much adoration.

Each week, all over the world, people go to these sites and chant, sing, stand up, sit down, praise and denouce as a group. After the 'ceremony' they will discuss the events of the day and what needs to be done to make things better for their chosen idols.

When confronted with a member of another faction, who believes they follow the correct team, they will argue and fight and quote and bicker. Each has several reasons for believeing why THEY are correct and
the other is wrong. Any negative point brought up by the opponant, is discounted, disregarded and ignored.

When something goes wrong with their team, it is someone elses fault, when it goes right it is because they are the best.

All of the above statements can be applied to Football or Religion.

BUT

Few wars are started over Football
No laws are passed to support the views of the most popular team
People are not tortured because of Football

I support Chelsea. I know it is only a game. I don't live my life by it. Pity the same is not true of Religion.


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Sunday, May 24, 2009

Ramblings

I have nothing in mind as to what this blog is about as I type here. I haven't blogged for a while, a lot has happened since I last typed, personal things. I am not going to go into them but they have made me reassess my life and how I live it.

The priorities in life can sometimes get completely out of whack. You can be focussing your energies in the wrong areas. The superficial areas getting too much attention. I am very lucky and I have loads to be thankful for, a loving wife, 2 beautiful children, a house and a job (regardless of how often I complain about it).

The only thubthumping I will put in this blog is that at no point in my past few weeks did I ever seek solace in God or any other imaginary being. My issues and my life are just that...MINE! I think it is a cop out to try to suggest that what happens to you is inevitable and part of a plan, and also to seek a solution by sitting on your arse and waiting until God sees fit to help you.

Rely on yourself. You have the power and ability to change yourself and help change those around you who need your help. You do not need divine intervention to do something. You also have the power to ask your loved ones for help. They will be of much more benefit than a deity.

Too often when we have a problem we focus FAR too much energy on finding excuses for ourselves or scapegoats so we can absolve ourselves of responsibility. And far too often we want a quick and easy explanation or solution to our problems.

Well here it is folks....life is hard and getting through it is hard work. Get your head out of your ass and get working. There are no easy answers. If your "As Seen On TV" solution seems too good to be true...it is.

I hope I am over the worst of my situation and I hope I come through it. But what I know for sure is that me and only me can be the driving force behind it. God isn't going to be my too good to be true solution.

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Open & Fair Debate (& Alternative Medicine)

Last night I was on Twitter and I had a very interesting converstaion with a fellow twitterer. I won't give that persons name as it is irrelevant to this blog but I will post the tweets here.

The conversation annoyed and bothered me because although I felt I was being fair and open, but was voicing a differing opinion (against Alternative Medicine), I received agressive responses and was mocked by this other person (who I will call XYZ from this point on for simplicity) because I disagree with her.

This 'conversation' started when XYZ sent this general tweet. It was a link from the Respectful Insolence blog.

Why are people so threatened by alternative medicine? - Huffington Post criticized for "anti-vaccine nonsense & quackery": http://is.gd/w9Zj

Fair enough I thought. I voiced my own opinion as follows..

@XYZ I don't think it's fair to say people are threatned by Alt Med just because they discredit it.

I expeced a response, and got one..

@locaoimh Why do they try to discredit it if they are not threatened by it? I'm currently being treated for Pleuritis homeopathically--

This was one half of the response but as I had not noticed the '--' to indicate 'more to come' I responded with the following tweets.

@XYZ They discredit it because it has no scientific evidence to support it and success are no better than placebo.

@XYZ Alt Med is dangerous because it risks doing harm when it purports to being doing good. And it ain't cheep.

@XYZ Why use an alternative to medicine when you can have medicine.


The rest of XYZ's tweet was this..

@locaoimh --by my Eastern medicine doctor, with perfect success. So, forgive me if I find naysayers quite foolish.


And then in response to my tweets..

@locaoimh That is actually untrue. You should research acupuncture and acupressure; you might be surprised.


As one of the main issues with Alternative Medicine is that they have no studies or more importantly, clinical trials to back up the claims, the successes are subjective and anecdotal. People are aware of the success THEY had, but are completely unaware of any failures other have had. Their own success is more than likely due to the placebo effect or often as a result of their body healing itself. The successes of Alt. Med. are coincidental and not corelated.

I replied, in as friendly a way as I could..

@XYZ I'm very happy u have had success. How many people have had none with that same doctor?


The tone changed at this point. I have all too often see it happen (you'd think I'd learn!!) that when someone who holds a belief (and I use that word specifically as Alt. Med. is more based on belief than on science) and that belief is questioned, they respond agressively. I usually attribute this to the fact that they find themselves in a situation where they can't defend the position they have taken but will not concede. I also wonder is it because they have doubts about it themselves and do not like to be faced with them.

@locaoimh That's a terribly ignorant question.I refuse to debate this with someone who calls themself a "flippin idiot" in their own profile

I should have stopped at this point. If someone changes the point of focus from your disagreement and begins to make it personal, not only have they admitted defeat, but have given up the right to respectful deabate. (On a side point my Twitter Bio is this "Reader, Thinker, Flippin Idiot.")

I responded..


@XYZ It's at the heart of Alt Med. People are only aware of their own experience. My profile is humour and irrelevant. ---

@XYZ --- it seems to me that you are the one feeling threatned. But I will drop it now. I can discuss again whenever u like.


XYZ's response was..

@locaoimh I always feel threatened by people who start debates with strangers. If people are only aware of their own experience,--

@locaoimh --why are you even questioning mine? My Doctor has only satisfied patients. Can a traditional MD say so much?


Then she sent a general tweet..

I seem to be a magnet for combative idiots. Either that, or I'm just too flippin' controversial. Which do you think it is?


Again, I should have stopped. But I didn't.

@XYZ I suggest not making public statments if you are threatned by people expressing a different point of view.

@XYZ I will reserve the right to doubt your 100% success rate of ANY doctor.


She responded..

@locaoimh You reserve the right to doubt whatever you wish. However you dont have the right to be rude and obnoxious toward other's opinions


At this point I realised I REALLY needed to stop. At no point was I rude or obnoxious towards her or her opinions. I was simply expressing my disagreement with them. I felt this particular attack was inaccurate and very unfair. I also decided that this person was not prepared to defend her position honorably so I had to stop. I felt that she was completely wrong with those specific comments but also in the wrong in general. If she was not going to be able to enter into mature debate over a statement she publically made, it was pointless to carry on.

I sent 2 more tweets and left it at that.

@XYZ I am simply expressing my opinion. I have not been rude. It was you who made personal comments. This is my final tweet on it.

@XYZ Good evening and I wish you continued good health.


She had the last tweet..

@locaoimh Thank you & likewise.I hope you open your mind to alt medicine one day.You'll realize then, Western medicine's only 1/2 the story


It was a surprising interatction but I suppose not untypical. I accept that it is difficult to have hard felt opinions challenged, but if they are so close to your heart that you cannot bare to have them questioned, I suggest you keep them to yourself!!

On a final point..to XYZ (even though I doubt she will ever see this, not accept it if she does)

I do have an open mind. That's why I have not accepted Alternative Medicine on faith and subjective experience. I prefer to think, and to question.

People often use lables like Eastern or Ancient to convey mystery or wisdom about something. But for me, I want no mystery in my medical cures and trepanning, bloodletting and the use of leeches were all ancient, but none are wise.



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